Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Going to the chapel, and we're going to get married!!

Well, I am amazed that I am sitting down right now and writing this blog post. The wedding is four days away!!! It's part of my commitment to stay connected to all of you, and also my commitment to a lifestyle that I've chosen. As some of you have said in your blogs, we have to stay connected. That is one of the reasons Weight Watchers, Alcoholics Anonymous, and other groups dealing with addictions and lifestyle changes are so successful. It's the support we gain from checking in and getting strength, ideas, and motivation from each other. We are all addicted to food, and we are committed to eating a low sugar, low carb, clean eating lifestyle. We really need each other! We need to keep in touch!

Things are hectic around here. I wish I had one more week to prepare. This is what my dining room looks like right now:




All the wine for the wedding and rehearsal, as well as various other things are stored here waiting to go the various venues. We also have baskets for the bathroom, should you need something....



Little paper cones are filled with lavender and tied with bows. These are to be thrown in place of rice when they bride and groom exit the church.


Baskets of flip flops are filled in case your tired feet need some relief from the high heels while dancing!
 And there are lots of other things, like gift bags for the hotel guests, bottles of water with customized labels, and the list goes on and on.


While I would love to be able to share some new and delicious recipes I've discovered ( and I did discover some recently,) I am going to share something simple and delicous that I have been doing the last few days. After the wedding when things settle down, I'll share some great dinner ideas I've tried recently.

For now, try this delicous twist on water. It really makes a cool, refreshing summer drink,
I saw this on Dr. Oz and there was a woman saying this was a fat flush water. Not sure about that, but it is tasty. I make the whole pitcher up in the morning and drink throughout the day. Just add a slice of grapefruit, 1/2 of sliced cucumber, a sliced orange or tangerine, and some fresh mint. Keep in the fridge and drink throughout the day for a refreshing way to get your water in.

I may  not be able to blog the next few days, but I promise a whole run down, with photos of all the festivities, starting with the pool party for the bridesmaids and groomsmen on Friday afternoon at my house, followed by a beautiful rehearsal dinner we are hosting on Friday evening, then of course the big wedding day on Saturday. Sunday is  a pizza and champagne party with the family, and other guests poolside at our house.The happy couple leave for Tahiti, Bora Bora, and French Polynesia on Monday. And we are heading to the shore for a week of rest and relaxation!! I have a feeling we will need it!! As always, I am sending you love and hugs!!

P. S. I forgot to mention that Victoria's Secret has rented out the Elkins Estate where they Wedding reception is being hosted, for this whole week. They are shooting their latest catalog. We will be moving all of the wine/ gowns/ wedding stuff in Thursday morning. Maybe we will get to see some of the shoot. That should be a pick me up...size zero models in bikinis and thong underwear!!!!

Thought for the day: " I like nonsense. It wakes up the brain cells." Dr. Suess

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Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Rockin' the LPD!!!

Good Morning! No I'm not rocking the Los Angeles Police Department. Remember the initials for the Little Black Dress...LBD? Well, I have a LPD...Little Pink Dress. It's the dress I'm wearing to the rehearsal dinner. I'm stepping out of my comfort zone with the hot pick color. While it might not be as little as I had hoped, it fits, and I think it looks pretty good. I'm not getting hooked on the size, because it's a higher end  dress, and I know that the sizes are cut smaller. When I had my final fitting two weeks ago, I thought it was still a bit snug. The saleswoman seemed to struggle a bit getting it zipped. "Are you sure it's not too tight?"  I asked. "It fits perfectly." I was told. Well it did, ......if I just stood still, .......didn't bend over, or raise my arms. I was a little nervous.

This morning, sans makeup, or even a fix up of my hair, I wanted to do a trial run of both this dress and my gown for the wedding in the privacy of my own bedroom. I put on the dress, and it zipped up easily. And I was zipping it with my hand behind my back!! YAY!!  Let me say that again ...YAY! I think this felt better than any plate of pasta ever could!

My son who was making a bathroom run at 7:30 this morning, was accosted with a camera. "Take a photo for my blog," I said. "You're crazy Mom," he yawned.

That I am!!

Disregard the lack of makeup, the bed head and my bad breath...oh you can't smell that from the blog! Well maybe you can. Also please overlook that I am wearing two different earrings. Trying to decide between two pair.

So here's your rehearsal dress preview.  I promise I'll look better when I do my hair and makeup next Friday night! Just had to share. Love and hugs to you all.

Thought for the day: 

Taken from the Beck Diet Solution Facebook page. Whatever eating plan you follow, the tips and advice from this site are so helpful.

Wednesday Sabotage: I just ate something I wasn’t supposed to. I’ve really blown it! I might as well keep eating whatever I want and get back on track tomorrow. Response: If I was washing my nice china and accidently broke a plate, I wouldn’t go to my china cabinet and smash all the rest of it. Dieting is the same – it makes NO SENSE to compound one mistake with more!




Monday, July 9, 2012

Your bigger "yes" !


I recently read this quote,and thought how it can apply to so many things. Whether you are trying to lose weight, quit smoking, change a bad habit, or live life differently, this quote applies. You have to say no to some things, and say yes to others in order to achieve your goals.

Putting your priorities in order and sticking to your goals requires not only discipline, but time. That is why many of us slip up, fall off the wagon, or turn back to our old ways, especially with eating. Our lives get busy, time is short, and it's less hassle to do what's easy, and what we've always done in the past. We forget our initial commitment, and the reasons why we want to make a change. It takes time and commitment to change our ways and to stick to the plan. Often we're short on both.

So when life is short on time, I'm going to step back a bit, catch my breath, and refer back to doing what I know works. A change can start with your next bite. Sending love and hugs to all of you!

Thought for the day:  See above!

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Keep on keeping on!!




Time is just flying by over here. Two weeks from this Saturday is the big wedding day for my son. Preparations are happening at lightening speed. Dance lessons, dress fittings, meetings with the caterer, florist,and putting together seating charts are just a few of the things going on. I am researching and purchasing the wine. Hey, somebody has to do it! I'm also doing other little things to help out my future daughter-in-law. Our main task is  planning the rehearsal dinner, and a day after the wedding, pool side get together. Even though we are not the parents of the bride, and not official hosts of the wedding, there are still so many things to be done. Everyone is feeling stressed and a little short on time.

I am trying my best to stick with my eating plan. Trying to keep those carbs under control and limit my sugars. I will admit when I'm really stuck, I have been grabbing a few more berries then I should, and I just decided not to buy any more redi whip for awhile. That is getting hard to control. I have always been a stress eater, and I always will be. With all that is going on, and not just with the wedding, the stress level is high over here. So keeping that in check is a constant battle for me. I'm not where I want to be weight wise, but I was just at my drs for a checkup and I'm down 18 lbs from the last time I was there. We all know how hard it is to lose one pound, so I am going to be happy with that, even though I had hoped it would be twice that amount. I'm learning from my mistakes, changing habits for life, and eating a different way now.

From some of the posts that I have been reading, I see that some of you have slipped a little too. No one ever said this journey was going to be easy or perfect. Stay the course, pick yourself up when you fall and get back on track. Renew your commitment every day, or every  meal if that's what it takes. It's not an all or nothing thing. I have been far from perfect. I've had too many carbs, too much wine, and slipped with some sweets a few times. But I still keep coming back to what I know and what I continue to learn from all of you. I would have never stayed the course this long if if weren't for all of you, my dear cyber friends!

I also realized that I never shared some of the other exciting things going on in the past month. I so love seeing all of your photos, so I hope you enjoy mine as well. I shared my older sons MBA graduation, but my baby ( if you can call 22 a baby!!) also graduated a few weeks ago from Quinnipiac University in Connecticut. We also hosted a wonderful couples shower the first week of June. Such a fun time with the guys and the gals! Here are a few photos! Hope you like them. Until next time, sending hugs and love! I'm at the beach this week until Monday. I'll keep in touch!


Thought for the Day
“There is always going to be obstacles.
The thing you do is don’t let those obstacles determine where you go.”
~ Pearl Fryar
(1939-)


Quinnipiac University
Michael with his proud parents.
My oldest and my youngest son and my husbanc.
My mom and me having a cocktail and some appetizers at the cocktail party the university hosted the day before graduation.

The buffet table at the restaurant that we decorated for Meg and Ryan's couple showers. Note the large purple pom poms. It took me forever to put them together!!
The party favors....bottles of bubbly customized with a photo label!!!
My three sons!

The flower arrangements I made for the shower. Thank goodness my yard is filled with hydrangeas!

The Happy Couple!

My John, hamming it up for the camera!!




Saturday, June 30, 2012

Where does the fat go?

 Thought you might like to read this article that I found. Very interesting!


(CNN) -- Multiple chins, bulging tummies and flabby arms: It's easy to see where fat accumulates on the body.
When a person starts losing weight, where does the fat go? And what parts of the body can you expect to see results?
Headlines from fitness magazines promise exercises to blast away belly fat and activities to spot-reduce flab. The scientific evidence, unfortunately, doesn't back those sexy headlines.
Here are three things to know about weight-loss and body fat.
You can't change your shape, just your size.
You can't cherry-pick where you shed fat; weight loss doesn't work like a point-and-shoot.
MRIs, CT scans and dexa scans, which use X-ray beams to measure body composition, show no evidence for spot reduction.
"Basically, when we lose weight, we lose weight all over in exactly the proportion that's distributed throughout our body," said Susan Fried, director of the Boston Obesity and Nutrition Research Center at the Boston University School of Medicine.
This dexa scan of a woman who underwent bariatric surgery shows where she lost her body fat.
This dexa scan of a woman who underwent bariatric surgery shows where she lost her body fat.
A pear-shaped woman who loses weight will remain a pear, just a daintier one, say researchers who specialize in body fat. More women tend to be pear-shaped, with fat around their hips and thighs. Men tend to be apple-shaped, because they have fat that accumulates around their waist.
"People come in with unrealistic expectations from magazines and spot-reducing," said Gary Foster, director of Temple University's Center for Obesity Research and Education. "That doesn't happen. When you start to lose fat, it's proportionate throughout your body, whether it's your neck, waist, ankle circumference. You'll come out smaller but have the same body shape."
Maggie and Andy Sorrells in 2002, before the couple started a faith-based weight loss program.
Maggie and Andy Sorrells in 2002, before the couple started a faith-based weight loss program.
That was the case with Maggie Sorrells, 37, who lost nearly 300 pounds through diet and exercise in less than five years.

Her body was pear-shaped even when she weighed about 500 pounds. She reduced her portion sizes and attended weekly faith-based weight loss meetings called Weigh Down. She noticed that her face and hips were getting smaller.
"My hips were like 73 inches," Sorrells said. They're now down to 39 inches.
"It's crazy to think how much they've come down."

She and her husband, Andy, who live in Nashville, lost more than 500 pounds combined.
Sorrells essentially retained her pear shape, although she's 300 pounds lighter. "I'm still rounder in the bottom part of my body. I'm still pear-shaped," she said.
Maggie Sorrells said she essentially retained her pear shape, although she is 300 pounds lighter.
Maggie Sorrells said she essentially retained her pear shape, although she is 300 pounds lighter.
For most people, the problem is their weight, not their body shape, Foster said. Whether you're a pear or apple may be determined by genetics or hormones.
Not all body fat is created equal.
When Joe Dragon, an insurance company supervisor in Albany, New York, started losing weight from his 425-pound frame, he noticed the biggest difference in his stomach.
"I was never heavy on the bottom; it was more the gut, belly area," the 34-year-old said. "The differences I noticed, I have a flat stomach. It used to be huge round ball."

Joe Dragon lost 135 pounds on Weight Watchers and exercise.
Joe Dragon lost 135 pounds on Weight Watchers and exercise.
Like Dragon, men tend to be apple-shaped and carry more belly fat, known as visceral fat. This is a dangerous type of fat because it surrounds abdominal organs and is metabolically active.
Essentially, it disturbs the regular mechanisms in your body.
The fat cells release biochemicals that lead to inflammation, which could lead to heart attacks, strokes and joint and muscle pain. This accumulates in the liver, said Dr. Robin Blackstone, surgeon and medical director of Scottsdale Healthcare Bariatric Center in Arizona.
"Fat is basically a store of energy," she said. "When you need energy, you break down the fat. That breaks down into a component called free fatty acid and goes into the liver for energy. When you have a lot of excess fat, it generates so much free fatty acid, the liver can't handle it, so it stores it."
That triggers a host of problems including non-alcoholic fatty liver disease, insulin resistance and diabetes.
"Belly fat is much more harmful than the so-called big butt," Foster said.
The fat in the hips causes much alarm because that part of the body is highly visible. Called subcutaneous fat, the masses of this fat may be unsightly, but scientists believe they're not as dangerous as internal abdominal fat.
For cosmetic or social reasons, women are more likely to seek obesity treatment than men.
"What that says is that men are likely to need obesity treatment more than women, but women, likely due to stigma socially for being overweight, are more likely to present for treatment," Foster said.
Where does the fat go?
Fat cells expand when people consume more energy than they can burn. During weight loss, the cells shrink.
"The fat is a very specialized cell, and it takes basically the fat we eat and it stores it in form of triglycerides," said Fried, who researches how fat is deposited. "It's doing that for the purpose of releasing it when other parts of the body need it."
Humans carry about 10 billion to 30 billion fat cells. People who are obese can have up to 100 billion.
"If anyone of us overeats long and hard enough, we can increase the number of fat cells in our body," Fried said. "When we lose weight, we don't lose the number of fat cells."
The size of the cells shrinks, but the capacity to expand is always there.
Liposuction can remove fat cells, but this procedure is ideally for people who are not obese.
"The fat cells are actually being removed," said Tony Youn, a plastic surgeon who performs liposuctions. "It doesn't mean that fat cells that remain can't get bigger."
Despite the extraction of fat cells, the ones remaining can always get bigger or smaller depending on a person's diet and fitness.

Thursday, June 21, 2012

Summer breeze, makes me feel fine!

Hello Everyone!

Down at the shore for a few days. So hot and humid here. Temperatures will be close to 100 on parts of the east coast. Temperatures along the shore seem about ten degrees cooler. I hope the beach will be cooler with the sea breeze. Somehow when you are sitting on a beach chair, at the waters edge, and under a shady umbrella, things seem just fine!





 Just had a long walk with the dog to the farmers market down by the bay. Bought some beautiful lettuce, radishes, blue and blackberries, peaches for my husband, and two balls of homemade mozzarella.. It was tough to avoid the beautiul breads, homemade pizzas, and muffins, but I walked on by!!

Came home and made one of my favorite breakfasts; poached eggs. This time I had them over two pieces of flaxseed bread. Very delicious! If you haven't tried poached eggs, I think you would be surprised at how delicious they are. Not hard to make either.

Now I'm  off to the big supermarket to stock the fridge with all the remaining stuff I need before my boys and their friends get here for the weekend. It's amazing how much kids in their twenties can eat in a weekend! And it isn't sugar free and low carb either!!! Plus I have to look at all the girls in their string bikinis. Painful on many levels!!!

Have a great day everyone!Photo: At the beach in Longport!!!

Thought for the day:

( Not sure of the author. but posted by Louise Smith on facebook!!)





Monday, June 18, 2012

It's all a matter of perspective!

How does the time fly by so quickly? Where does it go, and what have I done in the last eleven days since I've posted? Hmmmmm....let's see

- wash, wash, wash

-cook, cook, cook

They are sparkly and beautiful!!
-buy shoes for wedding. Hope I can stand in them all day and still look good.

-make toiletry/essential item baskets for the bathrooms at the weddings

-make 150 paper cones filled with lavendar, and tied with bows and monogram labels, for the guests to toss at the married couple when they leave the church


-research and order wines/champagnes for the wedding ( a new task that we volunteered to handle   and pay for)

- continue with all the office tasks of running my husbands two, and soon to be three, practice locations

-plan rehearsal dinner, get invitations printed, addressed and mailed


-order place cards, gift bags and flowers for rehearsal dinner

-get my hair colored, cut and eyebrows waxed

-help my boys get packed and sent off to Montreal for the weekend bachelor party

-host my nephew and niece for a few days at my house

-take my  nephew and niece to the shore with me for a 4 day weekend

-get up at 5 am with my niece and her friend to watch the sunset on the beach


-dinner and drinks on the bay with the kids, my husband and mom
about

-bike ride, dog walk, and hang out on the beach daily with the kids

-buy some new beach chairs to replace a few that have broken

-grocery shop, cook meals, and wash during our shore weekend ( includes washing all the sheets and towels when everyone leaves ( UGGHHH...so many!!!)

-go to Ocean City for the night to ride the wild rides on the boardwalk with the kids
Boardwalk At Twilight Ocean City New Jersey

-send out my fathers day cards to my dad and father-in-law

- take my dad out for a fathers day dinner this past Sunday with the rest of the family

-drive up to my brothers today to be with the kids, pick my nephew up from camp and then take him to a friends house

-continue reading the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy ( on book three and still in awe as to how this writer knows about all this stuff!!)
Fifty Shades Freed [Book]

-read wheat belly...or at least parts of itWheat Belly: Lose the Wheat, Lose the Weight, and Find Your Path Back to Health [Book]

- try to keep up with all the blogs, and comment when I can

-try to stay within my BFC guidelines

-get my annual pap smear and yearly gyn checkup

-get fitted for my rehearsal dinner dress and gown for the wedding

-get ready to pack up to leave Wednesday for a long shore weekend

-make these delicious chicken parm burgers that were featured on The Chew. They are dipped in  a little panko crumbs mixed with parm cheese, but I doubt it would even be a full carb serving. They are really good. I ate mine without the roll. I also made mine with half regular ground chicken and half ground chicken breast.


- make grilled romaine lettuce, topped with some carmelized onions, sauteed with chopped bacon, to which I added some balsamic at the end. Top the grilled lettuce with it and add some crumbled blue cheese and/or some caesar dressing. So good. To grill the romaine, chop in half, brush the cut side with olive oil. Grill until nice and charred. You can chill and eat later or eat right off the grill. The inside of the lettuce is still cold, but the outside has a nice grilled flavor. I am eating it this way the whole summer!!
Grilled Romaine with Blue Cheese-Bacon Vinaigrette

I'm going to stop now because even I can't take anymore!!!That's it...I'm exhausted and going to bed. Hugs and love to you all!

Thought for the day: Life is a matter of perspective. Either you complain because roses have thorns, or you rejoice because thorns have roses. It all depends on how you look at it.fe is a matter of perspective, either you complain
because roses have thorns or
you rejoice because thorns have roses...

It all depends on how you look at it.Life is a matter of perspective, either you complain
because roses have thorns or
you rejoice because thorns have roses...

It all depends on how you look at it.