So as we enter into this brand new spanking clean new year, I plan to write down all the goals that I want to accomplish, but one of these goals will be to take it slow, to give myself time to change and to live in the moment. When there is a day that I slip up, or I don't ________ ( fill in the blank here), I will pick up where I left off, and carry on again towards my goals the very next moment. All will not be lost, and I will not be a failure, as long as I am moving forward. Every new day is really like the start of a new year. It's a clean slate every single morning, and a new beginning whenever we want it. Not just because the year changed.
To help me remember this, I plan to refer to the following quote. I copied this off a friends facebook page, and I'd like to share it with you. It's a quote from Dr. Wayne Dyer.
"Forget about those New Year’s resolutions in which you decide on the first day of January how you will be conducting your life for the next twelve months. Instead, set up day-to-day goals for yourself, and then resolve to begin living with present moment awareness for the rest of your life. When you get good at living your present moments one day at a time, you’ll see yourself changing right before your own surprised eyes. Remember, anyone can do anything for just one day, so tune out the sentences that keep you locked into your old self-defeating ways and begin to enjoy each day of your bright new year."
Sending big Happy New Year hugs to you all. Wishing you a bright and happy new year. May all your dreams come true!
Beautifully written and so true. One breath at a time, one day at a time. Loving ourselves as we love other's that aren't perfect. Why can we forgive other's for not meeting our expectations when it is so hard to forgive ourselves?
ReplyDeleteI know you will meet your goals this year.
I think you should post a picture of you in your beautiful new coat!
Hugs back at you, I really love the hugs:)
Beautiful post Pattie, Happy New Year to you. I love the new look of your blog it is very fresh.
ReplyDeleteHaving the right attitude is really a HUGE part of the puzzle. You'll get where you want to be because you're paying attention to this part of eating healthy and losing weight.
ReplyDeleteHI Pattie,
ReplyDeleteWhat a great post today. It really is relate-able to all of us. I don't believe in making big goals only to fail and feel bad later.
One day at a time is great.
Have a great day my friend. :-)
Happy new year to you to! All we can really do is take it day by day when you get right down to it! I buckled down today and made some coconut flour brownies and some lemon sugar free cheesecake bars. Now I know if I want something "sweet" a BFC version is waiting for me. Unless my husband gets to them all first, lol! Planning ahead does help!
ReplyDeleteyes, yes, yes! Every day for sure is all we can *really* commit to. Nice job!
ReplyDeleteSuch words of wisdom Pattie and that quote hits it head on. I am one who wants everything yesterday. This journey has taught me patience & self forgiveness.
ReplyDeleteI wish you and everyone of us a great new year where all that we hope for and aspire to achieve will become a reality.
BIG WARM FUZZY HUGS to you!!!!!!!
I love your attitude. Definitely sounds like one of success. I love how you're giving yourself time to change. Important lesson for me to learn. thanks.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year, Pattie!! It's OUR year!!
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